Showing posts with label Holiday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holiday. Show all posts

Friday, November 23, 2018

Thanksgiving 2018


So apparently I haven’t written a Thanksgiving post since 2015. Maybe I should write more. This would, of course, require me to watch less. I don’t know how many hours of Amazon Prime TV I’ve racked up over this week of break, but if I did know, I would probably be embarrassed...

but still very thankful that that is even an option. I am a member of the very last generation to remember before the internet was an assumption. I recall using card catalogues in libraries, when letters with stamps were still a perfectly normal (and timely) way to contact someone, and when your personal music collection took up a couple of drawers and was only organized by the album. Oh, and cell phones were a brand-new thing.

And now we have—pause and take a brief look around whatever screen you’re reading this on—all this. I can hit a few buttons, click a few more buttons, and whoosh: these thoughts are out there for everyone from my grandmother to the nearest NSA agent to see. The closest my father could get to this at my age was a letter to the editor. Or maybe a chat room, but somehow I doubt he was that technically savvy back in 1990. Now he has a smartphone, along with everyone else—the man who grew up handwriting reports, only from what was available in the school library. My grandkids will hopefully be unable to even think in those terms. “Oh, you want to know the mating season of the Fijian Crested Iguana? No problem.”[1]

If Thanksgiving had an essence,
it would be turkey, mashed potatoes,
and this...
And it’s not just the tech. I have a couple of best friends who love me (even on my surly days), a plethora of family who love me even more (even on my annoying days), and a church with people who make sure I don’t get left at home alone on Thanksgiving—which means more than I would probably ever admit. And there was buttermilk pie. Do you know how hard it is to find buttermilk pie in northern Idaho? (And they gave me leftovers!) We played a mammoth round of Russian Palooka, had a few risqué Bananagrams, sang all sorts of lovely music. As for the rest of life, I have enough money, a job that pays the bills, good health, and more books than I will get read in the next two years, if I’m honest.

Does it get better? Sure. But please God, never let me shovel ingratitude over the blessings of the moment. Happy Thanksgiving, y’all. On to Christmas!



[1] March to April. https://www.australiazoo.com.au/our-animals/reptiles/lizards/fijian-crested-iguana. Now you know.

Thursday, November 26, 2015

Thanksgiving 2015


Alone. Cold. He sits in a barren, sparse room, hands losing feeling, trying desperately to be interested an ancient classic text on rhetoric assigned over the break. He’s behind—planned to finish it yesterday. His room at the top of the creaky house is below comfortable even for him—a numbing 30 degrees or so. The window leaks icicle air. On a day associated with friends, family, and food, his friends are absent, his family more so—two thousand six hundred and forty-four miles away, to be exact. And he skipped breakfast. His bank account’s low and college (not to mention living) is everlastingly expensive. Throw in the fact that he’s twenty-five and alone in the universe. What has this poor sap to be thankful for? What good is Thanksgiving Day to him?

Providentially, I can answer that question. See, the pathetic figure above, the one might feel a few pangs of sympathy for? He’s me. And the pangs (provided it’s not really just hunger for your aromatic, juicy turkey in the oven) aren’t necessary. Perspective, as the fellow said, is everything.

The first time in the Bible that I can find with the phrase “give thanks” is in Chronicles, where David has written a worship song on the occasion of God coming to be with His people. The Ark of the Covenant has come to Jerusalem. “Give thanks to Jehovah, for He is good, His steadfast love endures forever!” That phrase resounds again, and again, and again—from temple worship to manifold psalms, from the letters of the apostles to the twenty-four elders who everlastingly fall before the face of God. It is a mark of His people and priests that they give thanks. It is also a mark of His enemies that they do not: “…they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened.” Thus Paul in Romans. Thanksgiving, it seems, is a fundamentally Godly activity. Unlike the pagans or the Pelagians, we bring nothing to God. We can claim no due. It is just a gift, all the way down, and we are to be thankful the same way. All—the way—down.

That perspective? Hogwash and humbug. I’m not really alone. I have God. And even though He should be enough, He’s more generous than that. Santa’s got nothing on my Father. I’ve got an invitation to another family’s celebration this afternoon. Some of my friends will be there too. My own family called and said they love me and think of me, even over two thousand miles away. I’m better off financially than most of Africa, and have a solid roof over my head. The temperature is cool, but unlike ninety percent of the world, I like cool. And it’s even closer to where I like it after I randomly found a space heater in the closet this morning. My Father gives like that. As for the money and the relationships—I can thank God for what I expect Him to do, as well as what He’s already done. Think of Abraham. And honestly, the homework will get done. Eventually. I have faith.

God’s love is not measured by our own. It is better than mine. I can take perverse glee in the discomfort and pain of those I love. Worse, I can ignore them entirely. I focus purely on my wants and pains and lusts and various other short-sighted obstacles. Look up, God whispers. Those look big to you, the same way a walnut looks gigantic to an ant. Look beyond to the oak tree. Psalm 1. Isaiah 61. Remember your God, and give thanks. For computers. Turkeys. Wheat thins. Swords. Books. Family. Lots of family. Slippers. Crosses. Beans. Guns. Empty tombs. Board games. Girls. Elephant shrews. Movies. Oatmeal crème pies. Jobs. Magic rings. Last stands. Pizza. Friends. Unexpected adventures. It’s all from Me. The least you can do is thank your Father.

Amen. Thanks to Jehovah, for He is good, His steadfast love endures forever, even unto anno domini MMXV and beyond. For He said in their land they shall possess a double portion; they shall have everlasting joy. Can’t wait to see what I can thank Him for next year!